"In His Time"……

Ecclesiastes 3:1 “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven”. Lord knows He placed on my heart a great word to minister today and I was SUPER excited when the Holy Spirit placed it on me last Saturday as I napped before the “Stand 4 Jesus” rally. So, once I arrived to pick my sister (Jocelyn) up for the rally I couldn’t WAIT to tell her about what was placed on my heart to ENCOURAGE someone. However, I beat myself to the finish line because YESTERDAY the Holy Spirit said, “THIS is what God wants you to use to ENCOURAGE tomorrow”. I’m NOT going to lie….I was like “YOU SURE” lol because I already had studied my bible all week to prepare myself for something TOTALLY different. So, here it goes……18 yrs ago around THIS season I sat in class a freshman in high school. I sat beside a young man slim in size but tall in length. He seemed shy and quiet and I liked that about him because I was VERY outgoing and OUTSPOKEN. Over the year we became “BEST FRIENDS” and we found ourselves always chilling with each other as “Friends”. I would set him up with females and OF COURSE I wouldn’t give his friends the time of day(Not my type).After two years of being “Friends” our feelings became DIFFERENT for each other and we began an “OFFICIAL” relationship, now I’m not saying “EXCLUSIVE” because in ALL honesty we were BOTH young so we went with the flow. After the birth of our first son in my 11th grade year of high school things became “VERY” different we were PARENTS…WOOOW imagine THAT. He graduated a year before me and I followed successfully the following year(with a son on my hip…LITERALLY). After PLAYING HOUSE for a couple of years, we went our separate ways. We continued Co-parenting our son and that worked perfect for us. Throughout the years I had a relationship and so did he. We would see each other on fridays to do what we called “Drop off the package” lol, that was our little saying for him picking our son up every friday. After six years of being a single mother… (As far as having a Husband) I decided my situation was no longer for ME.I began attending church(which my son was already doing weekly with my mother) I decided to give my moms church a try because my son was ALWAYS coming home excited about “About My Fathers Business(AMFB) Outreach Ministry”. I went a few times and as I shared before I was raised in the church; therefore, I recognized Gods word being ministered IMMEDIATELY. After attending weekly, I joined the church(along with my son) and we were baptized about two weeks later. Now, this is where the story gets INTERESTING my son who was about eight at this time invited his father(my high school sweetheart) to see him get baptized. The day of the baptism his dad showed up(OF COURSE) and he saw I to was getting baptized and I can remember how he told me how proud he was of my decision to give my life to Christ(for some ODD reason that meant A LOT to me) and that our son talks about our church all the time. Over the next two weeks my son and I attended church and my walk with Christ was GROWING daily. I remember it so well because it was Mothers day Sunday, I looked up and my sons father was walking in church with two dozens of flowers(One for me and one for my mother) and I was SHOCKED to say the least. My sons father wasn’t raised in church and in all the years we knew each other we had NEVER attended church together. I read an article that says “When couples do things together whether it’s bird-watching, playing tennis or attending church — they tend to do better,”  and “when they don’t share these activities, particularly when they are important, couples are more likely to suffer.”When one partner attends services regularly and the other does not, relationship satisfaction is lower. Two nonreligious partners are more content together than partners with different practices, the study says. After service my sons father told me that our son had been HOUNDING him since the baptism to visit our church so he FINALLY decided to attend. After a month of REGULAR attendance my sons father gave his life to Christ and was also baptized. Thru all of this we remained co-parents to our son. Until one night I received a call from my sons father asking if I was still in a relationship(answer NO) and that God put on his heart that he needed to work things out with me THRU CHRIST. I was in SHOCK(a little b/c I KNEW what God was capable of by this time) but I AGREED and we began COURTING each other ALL OVER AGAIN but this time with CHRIST leading the way. We would do things together as a family and the GLOW on my sons face was UNEXPLAINABLE. After about four months he proposed to me and FIVE YEARS AGO TODAY WE WERE JOINED TOGETHER BY CHRIST AS ONE….HALLELUJAH!!!! My husband and I lived IN THE WORLD two TOTALLY different lives and even held other relationships for SEVEN YEARS…..YES!!!! SEVEN YEARS and it was NOTHING BUT GOD that made us ONE “In His TIME”. Mark 13: 33 “Be on your guard [constantly alert], and watch and pray; for you do not know when the time will come”. Habakkuk 2:3 “For the revelation awaits an appointed time;  it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.” Today I want to ENCOURAGE SOMEONE who may be down on themselves because their not where THEY feel THEY NEED to be in their lives. Whether it’s the marriage/relationship your in or your career. You could be FRUSTRATED that LIFE is not what YOU PLANNED it to be. I ENCOURAGE YOU TODAY to PUT GOD FIRST. YES at the FRONT OF THE LINE!!! and WATCH WATCH WATCH Him do HIS WILL “NOT” YOURS…..TRULY give your ENTIRE EXISTENCE on earth to HIM and FOLLOW…. Now, “TRULY” FOLLOWING means GIVING UP some things ex. A man/women, FRIENDS, PARTYING, DRUNK DRINKING, so forth and so ON…..even if you have to give up the LOVE of your life for SEVEN YEARS because God(when YOUR in HIS WILL) will bring him back in HIS TIME. See we KEEP HOLDING on to DEAD weight because WE WANT TO but I’m here to let you know your life WILL NEVER EVER CHANGE unless/UNTIL God is in TOTAL CONTROL of it. Look at MY story THAT WAS NOTHING I MEAN NOTHING BUT GOD!!!!!!!! Today CHOOSE God and PRESS FWD and you will SURELY see a CHANGE…..NOT YOURS BUT HIS CHANGE!!!! Jeremiah 1:5 “Before I formed you in the womb I knew you.  Before you were born I set you apart!”  ACCEPT this WORD and TODAY BEGAN to receive what God has for YOU…..in Jesus name   Be Bold Be Patient Be Changed Be READY to receive Be in HIS WILL……. S. CarterWinking smile



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13 Responses to "In His Time"……

  1. Caia Hooker says:

    This has really blessed me today ! I am really happy for the Carter’s It is truly a TESTIMONY ! I recieve it for myself as well, wait on the LORD !

  2. iNDIGO says:

    This testimony is SO POWERFUL. Not a game!!! Thank you for sharing this with the world Mo. I promise you, this has blessed multiple people today, whether they commented or not. Everytime I see you and your hubby together, I am reminded of God’s reach. He is so good, isn’t He?!?!!!

  3. D'Neen says:

    Moe, you know I love hearing this story of how God brought you two back together!! I’m encouraged and blessed!!!! Happy Anniversary!!

    Love ya!!

  4. Ray says:

    Wow! God is truly amazing. Such a beautiful story!

  5. Bianca says:

    This was very encouraging! I can relate in ways you wouldn’t believe. Thanks for sharing sis!

  6. BIG BRIAN says:

    Thats My WIFE!!!!!! So im reading your blog this eveing,saying to myself,”MY WIFE CAN FLAT OUT DUE THIS’. Keep up the AMAZING WORK!!!!! love you….

  7. Mom Dukes says:

    Your testimony needs to be shared with the world… I pray the Lord will give my daughter and son the courage to stand in His name and encourage all young adults around you to trust in the Lord to lead and guide their lives. It takes supernatural wisdom to create Godly examples of the Power of Jesus Christ in one’s life…. Love you both sooo much! Happy 5th Wedding Anniversary!

  8. Tonyce says:

    Such an amazing and wonderful testimony. Happy 5th Anniversay family (sorry I’m late). Keep being my example as to how a christian woman should be. I love you.

  9. Tanya Neal says:

    Loved it Moe! I’m sitting here like wow! didn’t know that and ur my cuz. But most of all felt blessed 2 have had that huge life change told 2 me and others. I am a believer and do need 2 let go and let god. I am so much better when it comes 2 him but am once and a while still drinking wine here and there or voka. It’s not offten but it’s still wrong and u have encouraged me with ur life experience and how u have 2 give god ur all in order for us 2 be right with him. luv u cuz and thx.

  10. Mikisha Simms says:

    Thanks Mo for sharing, you almost maid me cry.

  11. Nikki Gwaltney says:

    Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful story! Thanks for sharing and I know I’m late but Happy Anniversary! Keep it up! If I can figure out how to share this, I will…

  12. HANK LLOYD says:

    Jesus is the Son of God. He lived a sinless life and then died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins. “God demonstrates His own love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.”

    Jesus rose from the dead and now He lives in heaven with God His Father. He offers us the gift of eternal life — of living forever with Him in heaven if we accept Him as our Lord and Savior. Jesus said “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except by Me.”

    God reaches out in love to you and wants you to be His child. “As many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe on His name.” You can choose to ask Jesus Christ to forgive your sins and come in to your life as your Lord and Savior. In his time, what more can we ask of God. LOVE DAD

  13. boldandfab says:

    Reblogged this on The BOLD & The FABULOUS and commented:

    Though my husband and I don’t CELEBRATE VDAY I thought I’d share the ULTIMATE LOVE STORY (Besides God’s love story to US) with you on this LOVY DOVY DAY 😉
    #Enjoy #HappyValentinesDay #WontHeDoIt

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